Change of Heart
A short version of how—and why—I changed my relationship with alcohol. I’ve had a lot of relationships, and although I really do want to write about all of…
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How To Keep From Fucking Up Your Life
I’ve often taken the old saying of “no regrets” to mean that we can’t really make mistakes in life, but that’s never felt true to me. I think…
Sisters First
Being in close community with other men has freed me to love other men as brothers—and being immersed in that brotherhood has brought something else to the surface,…
Just Ready Enough
How do you know when you’re ready? As I’ve often said, Adventure Doesn’t Happen by Accident, and being prepared is an important part of how we get to…
Adventure Doesn’t Happen by Accident
Adventure is a bit of an enigma. It always felt like something that I wanted more of, and also that I didn’t quite understand how to get more…
Advice is Weak Magic
I realize that in saying this, I’m about to give you some advice about advice, and, here it is: Advice is weak magic. Being on the receiving end…
Relationships and Sex — Feb 22, 2021
Have you ever considered how your relationships with other men relate to your love and sex relationships? They do—deep, honest, even intimate relationships with the other men in…
Let Monday be Truth Day
In recent years I’ve become increasingly aware of what it feels like to carry something that needs to be said. When I have this feeling, it’s palpable, visceral,…
You Need to be Free to be Yourself — May 11, 2020
Nobody asked me, so I’m asking you: What Are You Drinking? Join me online Monday May 11 at 6-7 PM PT for a free, open honest conversation about…
What Are You Drinking? — April 27, 2020
Nobody asked me, so I’m asking you: What Are You Drinking? Join me online Monday April 27 at 10:30-11:30 AM PT for an honest conversation about drinking. Many…
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