
Change of Heart
A short version of how—and why—I changed my relationship with alcohol. I’ve had a lot of relationships, and although I really do want to write about all of…
A short version of how—and why—I changed my relationship with alcohol. I’ve had a lot of relationships, and although I really do want to write about all of…
I’ve often taken the old saying of “no regrets” to mean that we can’t really make mistakes in life, but that’s never felt true to me. I think…
Being in close community with other men has freed me to love other men as brothers—and being immersed in that brotherhood has brought something else to the surface,…
How do you know when you’re ready? As I’ve often said, Adventure Doesn’t Happen by Accident, and being prepared is an important part of how we get to…
Adventure is a bit of an enigma. It always felt like something that I wanted more of, and also that I didn’t quite understand how to get more…
I realize that in saying this, I’m about to give you some advice about advice, and, here it is: Advice is weak magic. Being on the receiving end…
Have you ever considered how your relationships with other men relate to your love and sex relationships? They do—deep, honest, even intimate relationships with the other men in…
In recent years I’ve become increasingly aware of what it feels like to carry something that needs to be said. When I have this feeling, it’s palpable, visceral,…
Nobody asked me, so I’m asking you: What Are You Drinking? Join me online Monday May 11 at 6-7 PM PT for a free, open honest conversation about…
Nobody asked me, so I’m asking you: What Are You Drinking? Join me online Monday April 27 at 10:30-11:30 AM PT for an honest conversation about drinking. Many…
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