Sisters First
Being in close community with other men has freed me to love other men as brothers—and being immersed in that brotherhood has brought something else to the surface,…
Just Ready Enough
How do you know when you’re ready? As I’ve often said, Adventure Doesn’t Happen by Accident, and being prepared is an important part of how we get to…
Adventure Doesn’t Happen by Accident
Let’s talk about adventure. Adventure is a bit of a mystery, right? It always felt like something that I wanted more of, and also that remained mostly out…
Advice is Weak Magic
I realize that in saying this, I’m about to give you some advice about advice, and, here it is: Advice is weak magic. Being on the receiving end…
Relationships and Sex — Feb 22, 2021
Have you ever considered how your relationships with other men relate to your love and sex relationships? They do—deep, honest, even intimate relationships with the other men in…
Let Monday be Truth Day
In recent years I’ve become increasingly aware of what it feels like to carry something that needs to be said. When I have this feeling, it’s palpable, visceral,…
You Need to be Free to be Yourself — May 11, 2020
Nobody asked me, so I’m asking you: What Are You Drinking? Join me online Monday May 11 at 6-7 PM PT for a free, open honest conversation about…
What Are You Drinking? — April 27, 2020
Nobody asked me, so I’m asking you: What Are You Drinking? Join me online Monday April 27 at 10:30-11:30 AM PT for an honest conversation about drinking. Many…
What is Intuition?
It’s a combination of embodied cognition and pattern recognition. You could also say that it’s feeling what the universe wants, through your body. Intuition is knowing without knowing…
What the Body Wants
How do you know what you really want to do—what’s actually good for you? What the body wants is not always clear to the mind, and it’s often…
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